Dear Aimee: Rough Horseplay Must Commence with Caution

Q: Sometimes when my brother and I fight, he hits me. How do I stop him from hitting me?

-Hurt During Horseplay

Dear Hurt,

Your brother could be dealing with anger issues and taking them out on you because you are an easy target. Next time your brother hits you or threatens violence against you, go to an authority figure. If you are afraid to go to a parent due to repercussions from your brother, you can talk to someone like your guidance counselor or one of your friend’s parents. Another reason he could be having violent outbursts is if something traumatic has happened to him or your family recently. If the violence continues, contact your local abuse hotline in the phonebook. They can give you great advice on how to deal with any underlying issues going on at home. Try to talking to some of your brother’s friends; maybe they can give you an explanation for his violence.

Sincerely,

Aimee

NOTICE: The authors of The Tiger Times advice column “Dear Aimee”/”Dear Annie” are not trained counselors or mental health professionals.  The opinions offered in this column should only be undertaken with caution, a complete understanding of legal responsibilities, and the approval of parents and teachers.  The Tiger Times is not responsible for any repercussions or consequences ensuing from behavior inspired by this or any other advice issued herein.